writer's block is so real. my laptop has drained its battery from 98% to 30% (and counting) while i have been staring at it's screen wondering what the heck to write. usually it's not that difficult for me to think of a topic and write about it, but this week has been a struggle. hours have gone by this morning with me scouring the internet looking for inspiration on something to talk about. pictures, quotes, anything. i found inspiration maybe five times, but then lost it once i started trying to figure out what exactly i wanted to say. the struggle had me so close to throwing in the towel for this week.
it took me two or more hours to realize that i was trying way too hard and stressing myself out over it. my posts on aubstronomy since the beginning have had the purpose of uplifting people and making their mondays slightly better. i think i let this "duty" of mine go to my head. i have trying way too hard to be inspirational and encouraging and any other attributes that you can pair along with those. suddenly, it hit me like the classic cartoon scene of a giant piano getting dropped from a very tall building onto the bad guy that we were all happy to see squished. i don't have to have some elaborate life experience to be inspiring (although it sometimes helps). i don't have to have this awesome realization about the meaning of life and the universe and everything in between to be encouraging. and neither do you.
your life is a constant encouragement and inspiration to others around you, even when you're not trying for it to be. even when you are convinced that you have nothing of importance to say. the things you do in your everyday routine that you consider unimportant and trivial, may positively influence a person who just so happens to pass you on the street. God called us to be a "light to the world" (matthew 5:14). you can be a light by smiling at stranger as you walk by each other in the store. you can be a blessing to somebody by holding open the door for them at the library. not everything that matters in this world is elaborate. the best things in life can also be the most simple.
live your life in such a way that even the mindless things you do could possibly make someone's day better. not everything you do and say has to be worthy of being shown on a movie screen. besides, we all know that the blooper reel is the best part.
so get past that writer's block or whatever is keeping you from doing something you care about, and just do it. somebody will see what you're doing and appreciate it. and let's be honest, if you make just one person's day better with your so-called trivial and everyday tasks, isn't that all that matters? i defeated writer's block and so can you.
we are world-changers, sometimes without even trying.
with a lil bit of rain, a lot of love, and even more coffee,
happy weekend, kiddos! i sure hope it's getting warmer where you are. you could definitely borrow some humidity from us if needed, as we have plenty to spare. i have been finding so much great new music lately and i have been counting down the days until i could share. here's what's keeping us going:
electric love // børns
shut up and dance // walk the moon
stirred up // matt & kim
are we electric // the kooks
flashed junk mind // milky chance
sun // sleeping at last
strong // london grammar
resolution // matt corby
tear in my heart // twenty one pilots
how adorable are the lyrics in the last song? i die.
let’s talk about inspiration/motivation, mostly because i’ve been lacking in it. i’m on my last month of college and frankly i feel like i have been hit with a really slow-moving freight train. i have two ten-page papers due and finals and sorority stuff and yeah (i’m not complaining or anything). stress. very busy. and honestly, i haven’t felt like doing much lately. besides crying into my romanticism text book.
i guess you could say i am in a “drought” or in which i am in the middle of a desert, and water seems to be thousands of miles away. sometimes it’s really easy to forget that you are a person, and that you require water, and sustenance, and a freaking break. the drought doesn’t allow you to have these things though, because the drought sucks all the fun and inspiration out of your life.
i’m not blaming school or my busy schedule but more myself, for not being kind to me. i deserve to watch that one episode of SNL40, to take a breather, and to find enjoyment in the things i love. if you are also stuck in this drought mode in which you are in a constant cycle of taking a shower at the same time every day and sick of it: i feel you, me too.
here’s a couple things that have helped pull me out of the drought:
finally drinking some water,
i have never been a "prep". living in the south, it sometimes feels like the only way to be different is to not be preppy. now don't get me wrong, i see the appeal. i have some vineyard vines shirts and a southern tide baseball cap. they are comfortable and safe and remind me of the beach. there's nothing-how could anything be?- wrong with that. but very little southern cotton appeals to me as strongly as, say, a reworked vintage band tee from urban outfitters. but, like i've said before, i'm not going to completely rule out seersucker and pastels as something i "hate". of course, a huge exception is this dress, which you might remember me mentioning. it is so light and versatile, and the back is absolutely gorgeous (which is hard to tell because we shot on an unusually windy day. oops!). i couldn't help but edge it up with some chelsea boots. anything else would've made me feel like i was wearing a costume. how do you remix pieces you wouldn't normally wear to make "your own"? i'd love to hear from you!
y'all come back, now.
image via bethel music
"now death, where is your sting? our resurrected King has rendered you defeated." - forever, bethel music
forever is such a small word but with a heavy meaning. it literally means "for all future time." for the rest of eternity. for the rest of the days, hours, minutes, and seconds that the earth will ever experience. i say this word like it's nothing, like "i'll love you forever" or "you'll forever be my friend" or even "i wish this doughnut would last forever." but when i think about it, i really don't know if i can hold myself to the promises i'm making with that little word. i can't promise that i'll love you for the rest of days, but i can sure try. i certainly hope that some of my friends will forever be there, but who knows what can happen in the coming days?
this post may seem like a downer, but there's better news coming; just wait.
i can't promise forever. nobody can. nobody on this planet can make a statement so secure that it'll last throughout the rest of the oncoming days. but there's One who can.
so, so, so many years ago this perfect-in-every-way man named Jesus went to the cross and died a gruesome death. He was battered, beaten, and bruised. he took my sins, your shame, our past mistakes and brought them to the cross to be nailed right up there with Him. three days later, He rose from death to life and by doing this he conquered death forever. forever He is risen. (Matthew 27:32-66 & 28:1-15)
there's that word again, forever. by dying in my place, He secured my soul for the rest of time. He forever took all my sins and shames and wrongdoings. sure, i'll still screw up. heck, i did this morning before i wrote this post. but just because i mess up, it doesn't mean He takes away his forgiveness, mercy, and grace. they are still readily available to me at all times. His perfect love is more than i could ever ask for. He forever loves me and accepts me, He promises that. and because He is perfect, He can't break his promises. no take-backsies. He's the only one that can promise things with the word forever and truly mean it.
forever He loves me. forever He is taking me back, over and over again. forever He is forgiving me. and for that, i am forever thankful for what He did for me oh-so many centuries ago on that cross.
hoppy (late) easter, cuties!
ray-ban sunnies | american apparel sweater | forever 21 jeans | chanel espadrilles | chanel purse | fendi charm | cartier arm candy
photography: dylan mitchell
spring is in the air (well, for some of us, it's mostly just pollen)! but unless you live in close-ish proximity to the equator (sorry, northerners), it is probably still a bit chilly where you are. this is a perfect transition outfit from the frozen hell we've been enduring to the promise of spring. i cannot say enough about this sweater. it is so soft and cuddly, but light enough to wear with nothing under. the espadrilles are a little reminder of warmer days ahead. and you can truly do no wrong with raw-hemmed skinnies. also, totally reppin' that starbucks green tea because they are the reason i am employed. this outfit was perfect for my sunday of running errands, studying, and exploring the rooftops of buildings still in renovation downtown. shop my look above.
let's go adventuring.
images via tumblr
happy monday! let's start this week off a lil different with story time.
once upon a time, i dated this boy. this boy did not like the beach. because this boy did not like the beach, i claimed to not like the beach. but this is so far from the truth because i love the beach and everything to do with it. for almost two whole years, i ended up convincing myself that i didn't care if i went to the beach or not. we broke up and i immediately got back together with the beach. me and the ocean have been tight ever since.
once upon another time, i was seeing this other boy. he absolutely hated whatever i posted on instagram and twitter. this boy made fun of me constantly for anything and everything i did on social media. at first, i cared. i really did. i started trying to filter everything i did by what he would deem worthy to post. this was exhausting and i am lazy. i stopped caring after a short while and i have been saying and posting whatever i've wanted ever since. life is much easier this way.
currently, i am dating a guy who absolutely hates my black, chunky birkenstock sandals. he calls them my dad sandals. and you know what? he's so right; they are dad sandals. to make it worse, i often wear them with socks. but to be honest with you all, i really don't care. i love my birks and they are quite possibly my most favorite shoe i've ever bought. i love how they look and how they feel and everything. i don't care that i possibly look like a 40 year old father trying to be hip to impress his kids but failing miserably. i'm never getting rid of these sandals. i love my boyfriend, but i also love how much he hates my birks. it's kind of funny. (sorry, collin)
i told you guys these stories about my love life to basically say this: please, please, please never be ashamed of who you are and what you like or don't like. it has taken me almost five years to get to this point, but it is well worth being here. these stories show my progressions of seriously caring way too much on impressing others, to slowly starting to embrace myself for who i am and what i enjoy. do not belittle your feelings and interests because they don't match up to somebody else's. everybody is different. everybody likes different things. the things that interest you, interest you for a reason. God placed these quirks and hobbies and ideas and fascinations in your life for a reason. Psalm 139:14 proclaims that you are fearfully and wonderfully made, every single part of you. don't ever forget that. the world would be an awfully boring place if we all liked the same things. surround yourself with people who love you for your differences. don't let people diminish who you are as a person, especially for whatever makes you happy. the only kind of people you need in your life are ones who support you, lift you up, and fill up your soul with positive things.
also, try not to be one of those people who tear others down for what they enjoy. it's perfectly okay to tell somebody that you don't like something, but never try to get them to stop doing it if it's not bringing you any harm. live in harmony with one another. it's really not that hard to be a nice person who respects others. try it out, it could change the world.
embrace your quirks. wear those birks, even if your boyfriend hates them. don't be afraid to like what you like. you were created the way you are for a reason by the One who loves you and everything about you oh so very much.
image via buzzfeed
well sports fans, march is drawing to a close. and with the end of march comes the end of march madness. now, if you know me even a little bit in "real life", you know i'm a total pop culture geek. it's what keeps me going. so upon seeing this gem from matt bellassai, i knew i had found my soulmate. a parody on current events+sports that incorporates cute celebrity boys? this is honestly heaven for me. i hope this kid wins some type of award for this true piece of art. although i find some of his picks disappointing, this was a lot harder than it looks. tough decisions were made. star players were cut. the anticipation of a champion led to some nail-biting. but below, i have made my choice. print out a copy to try for yourself, and don't forget to tag me with your results!
let's be honest here, i didn't really have to do the entire bracket to pick a winner.
ball is life.
to celebrate the first day of spring over the weekend, i've composed a color story of bits and pieces of my winter. these pantone shades are what i associate with the sights and feelings of the past few months. these are so fun to make, and i plan on doing them at the end of every season.
hey, kiddos! it has been absolute madness over in aubstronomy land. because of this, sara and i collabed on a tuneage post so she didn't have to stress over a "not-so manic monday". sometimes, you just need some good music to get you through the week ahead.
ok, i think we can all agree: middle school was a rough time. for all of us. with braces and glasses and questionable fashion choices (ok, maybe questionable is sugar-coating it. they were just flat out wrong). but if we did one thing right in middle school, it was having great taste in music. i feel like at our age, in middle school, you either were into super pop punk or justin beiber. thankfully, we were not the latter. so we present to you a playlist highlighting the early 00's and beyond.
camisado // panic! at the disco
the great escape // boys like girls
beverly hills // weezer
lip gloss // lil mama
thnks fr th mmrs // fall out boy
just the girl // the click five
1985 // bowling for soup
welcome to the black parade // my chemical romance
stacy's mom // fountains of wayne
sugar, we're goin' down.
i bet kate never felt this way.
i went through quite a few style “phases” growing up (a term i use loosely because i’m still very much a kid). very tomboy during elementary school. vintage kitsch for my first few years of teenagerism. bohemian prep by the time i could drive. and now, as i’m about to graduate, i would describe my personal style as “minimalist with luxury influences”??? my oh my, how far we have come. i’m finally getting to a point where i know what i like and what i don’t. i’m not saying that i stay strictly within the genre i am wearing at the moment; there are days i throw on flowy crochets and huarache sandals and braid my hair. sometimes i wear combat boots and ripped skinnies and a flannel tied around my waist.
you don’t have to define your style if you don’t want to. wear whatever the heck you want. wear what makes you feel good. there are things in my closet that cosmo would tell me does not flatter my bodytype, but screw them because i think they’re adorable. i have missed out on some items that i crushed really hard on just because they “weren’t my style”. but i see now that personal style isn’t just what you wear, it’s what you love.
so don’t let anyone make you feel bad about what you love. this goes for every facet of your life. go to brunch and take crap from your friends because it’s “so cliché” (anyone who has animosity towards eating rosewater waffles past 11 a.m. is someone you don’t need in your life). listen to boybands and dance in the light of your refrigerator to them in the wee hours of the morning. wrap your body in things that make you smile.
you won’t regret it.
spring is here, dear readers! if you kept up with paris and new york fashion weeks, you know that s/s 15 is all about the 70's. i'm loving suede, subtle fringe, stark whites... and saint laurent is this moment's brand to covet. unless you've been unplugged since, like, birth: you've heard of ysl. and although i really want to highlight under-the-radar labels, i cannot stop daydreaming about these moccasin+espadrille beauties (or any other pair of booties and sneaks they're dishing out). and i feel like i really need to shout to the world how much i love their shoes.
i'm totally a kicks girl. i could have only one pair of jeans, a perfectly-worn oversized white tee, and a cashmere sweater to my name and be perfectly happy as long as i had options ankle-down. as a wise man once said, "you spend all of your life in your bed or in your shoes, so it pays to invest in both." no truer words were ever spoken, my friend. and that is how i justify my obsession.
i wear predominately neutrals, but these gold glitter boots??? i weep. the trend of solid white sneaks is here to stay and i couldn't be more psyched about it. and although i have never been crazy about handbags, the sleek minimalism of the two above have me drooling. guys, i just can't get enough.
friends, family, secret admirers: shop here.
yesterday, i treated myself and asked off work so i could have a much-needed day at the beach. the weather was absolutely perfect and i couldn't have planned a better day for a short little get away with friends. living on the gulf coast has its perks and being within an hour or two of at least five different beautiful beaches is one of the blessings very high up on that list. as soon as i stepped out of the car after a joyous, music-filled hour long car ride to florida and felt the sand scrunch between my toes, my mood was instantly elevated. i forgot about all deadlines and commitments and assignments and truly relaxed with some of my favorite people for the first time in a very long time.
everybody needs time to breathe and not think too hard about anything for a while. this little break is often so difficult to find during this crazy, busy, and hectic thing we call life. we are always doing. working. running. studying. meeting. planning. driving. going. "go, go, go" has been my mentality for as long as i can remember. i always want to be busy and productive. if i'm not working at the coffeeshop, i'm at school. if i'm not as school, i'm up at the church. if i'm not up at the church, i'm probably studying for my british literature class or trying to understand calculus. basically what i'm trying to say is, i'm doing so much in my life, i rarely get to sit back and fully enjoy and embrace my life.
after my beach day, i realized how blessed i am to have such an awesomely busy and hectic life. i love my job and i fully enjoy going to work almost every day of the week. i am so privileged to attend such a great college and be receiving a valuable education while learning new and exciting things. my church family means so much to me and i love doing life with them, especially the long and wonderful sundays and wednesdays i spend serving with them. the people in my life are some of the most superb and interesting individuals i've ever met and i want to spend every second with them and getting to know them a little bit better than i did before. i absolutely love my life being busy, when i really think about it. but i needed yesterday to realize that. i think i'll need one or two days a month like that where i sit back and doing nothing for a while to appreciate the many somethings i get to do everyday. and you need those days too!!
don't allow yourself to be too busy to love yourself and take care of yourself. take a sunday, go to church, get some lunch, go somewhere that makes you happy, and mentally check out for a day. don't worry about what else is going on besides just being in that moment, then and there. i promise, you won't regret it. you'll end up thanking yourself later. everybody deserves a day of rest and relaxation every now and then. it'll make you so much more thankful for the busy but rewarding days up ahead.
love yourself. reward yourself for being you and doing an awesome job in whatever you do. go to the beach. go to the mountains. do something you love, but rarely get to do because you're "too busy" and "don't have enough time." heck, just take a nice bubble bath with no interruptions. breathe a lil bit. everything will be okay. life will slow down for a few hours if you let it.
warm temperatures and saltwater waves are forever calling my name. what's calling yours?
trukfit hat | alexander mcqueen scarf | base range tank | ray-ban sunnies | for love & lemons bralette |one teaspoon shorts | isabel marant sandals | nars nailpolish | acne studions wallet
it is warming up down south and i couldn't be happier about it. i'm daydreaming about palm trees, tan lines, and lots of sunshine. can we just skip spring and jump right into the heat of summer?
this is my template for the perfect spring breakers uniform:
with this combination, you just can't go wrong. ditch the hat and get a quick blowout to go from day to night. great for riding with the top down and dancing on the beach.
can't you just smell the salt water?
i bet kate never felt this way.
hello. it is march. it is march of my senior year and i have no idea where i'm going to college.
this used to be something i laughed about. people would ask about my plans after high school, and i had everything figured out. but where i would actually go to fulfill my dreams? not a clue. not even the slightest one. and sure, it freaked me out in august when the questions started flooding in from teachers and counselors and classmates. and it was unnerving during the holidays when my family seemingly had nothing else on their mind. and now i hold back tears when my friends are mailing off housing payments and facebook-stalking potential roommates.
but it's not like i don't have options. in fact, maybe i have too many. i have some friends who only applied to one school, got accepted, and are on their merry way into "the real world". i probably applied to over a dozen schools, scattered all across the country. i have some great offers on the table, but am still waiting to hear back from some of my favorites. when people see the panic in my eyes after asking the dreaded "college question", their next (good-natured but totally not helpful at all) inquiry is "oh... well where do you think you'll end up?" uhhhhh can't you take a hint? i don't freaking know. (i never mean this in a rude way but i'm stressed out and sleep deprived and trying not to cry for the entirety of this conversation so cut me some slack ok). i could end up anywhere from manhattan to new orleans, from los angeles to nashville.
for those of you in college or maybe have already graduated, how did you deal with the toxic cocktail of two parts anxiety and one part senioritis? i need all the happy thoughts i can get.
if you need me, i'll be in the library.
okay. i have no idea why, but i have been dreading writing this post (i mean ask aubrey she’s been asking me to give it to her for like a week). all right i lied. i know why. and it’s mostly because i knew exactly what it was going to have to be about. i mean i could completely avoid it forever and never bring it up, yet i feel like i almost need to. i need to write these words and express my f e e l i n g s. it’s probably the only way i will fully be able to heal and process my emotions. and boy do i have emotions. emotions that are all wrapped around jamie fraser.
today i will be discussing/ranting/sobbing/groaning over Outlander by Diana Gabaldon. guys!! this one is a doozy. it took me a solid month to get over this book, and i haven’t even dared to pick up the sequel. i passed it in the book store the other day, and my hand legitimately shook.
as per usual, i’m going to begin my ranting with a couple of pet peeves i have when it comes to the literary world in the form a list (i feel like by now all my posts have to have lists. i must have a complex or something):
so i say all of this to acknowledge that Diana Gabaldon has created a world in which none of these things exist. have you ever read a book that has ruined you for all other books?? read Outlander and you will find out. it is the first novel in an epic eight-book saga that chronicles the lives of claire beauchamp and jamie fraser and many other incredible characters.
this book, this novel, this story, this epic wonderful adventure gave me feelings. lots of them. ones i don’t think i will ever be able to escape from. the emotions, the setting, the characters leap off the page with a type of real you can’t even imagine. as a writer, i am extremely jealous of Gabaldon’s talent to create a world i feel is as tangible as my own.
now, get on your feet, grab you keys and drive, or run i don’t care, and grab this book off the nearest book-shelf. it is calling you, and it demands your attention.
and to make your day even better, starz recently turned the series into a show and it is excellent. nothing quite like seeing your favorite story lines coming to life before your eyes. okay wow, now i will go cry over jamie fraser again. i think you can see why i didn’t want to write this post. it just brings up the f e e l i n g s all over again.
mary lynn “i need therapy when it comes to literary characters” wells
p.s. i feel like this post was kinda ranty?? and kind of a mess?? sorry?? i’m an emotional gal??
poetry via shel silverstein
“the only way we will survive is by being kind. the only way we can get by in this world is through the help we receive from others. no one can do it alone, no matter how great the machines are.” -amy poehler, yes please
the bible tells us to love our enemies and to do good and expect nothing in return in the book of luke in chapter six. if we do this, our reward will be so great and wonderful. but it's not a physical reward. serving and loving others and showing kindness to everybody we meet does not automatically drop a ten dollar bill into your bank account. while that would be awesome and much needed by us broke college kids and would probably encourage a lot more people to be nicer, that's not what love is about. love and kindness are about doing without expecting anything in return.
but sometimes that can be hard. sometimes people are mean and rude and every negative word you can think of. sometimes you feel too busy to help somebody out, even though it would take maybe only five minutes of your time. other times, you're the one who woke up on the wrong side of the bed and every possible thing is going wrong. sometimes, like most young adults in this world, you're convinced you don't have enough money to give to somebody who needs it way more than you do, even though you probably spent $5 on a coffee this morning on the way to work or school. regrettably i can admit to the fact that i've done all of these things a countless amount of times. but after every opportunity i had to share love with someone and i didn't do it for a minuscule reason, i never left that situation feeling good about myself. we need to start ignoring these irrelevant reasons to be selfish and try our hardest to live out our days in conscious and meaningful love.
honestly, i absolutely love doing little random things for people throughout the day and i'm trying to do it more and more every chance i get. whether it be trying my best at work to make a person's latte beautifully instagram-worthy or complimenting one of my classmates on his shoes or on her awesome grade on an assignment. doing these things for people and saying these things to people brings me so much happiness. maybe it's just because i love the thought that i could've changed the way somebody's day was going with just one thing. one thing that isn't even that hard for me to do! small things can make a difference, never forget that.
it really isn't that difficult to show kindness and spread some love around. we could all use a little bit more pleasantness on this monday as we go back to our desks in class or our cubicles at the office. try to be aware of your actions today and make sure that they reflect the kind of world that you want to live in. little acts of kindness can go such a long way. who knows? you could even change a few lives.
be like the sunshine you desperately wish the weather was currently giving to you.
when will this eternal winter end? the only thing getting me through is listening to sunny songs and wearing three jackets at one time. but nonetheless, it is friday and that is something to celebrate. it's time to put on some sunnies and shorts, crank up the heat, and pretend it's actually coming from the sun. here's what's stuck in our heads.
southern sun // boy & bear
jackie and wilson // hozier
flapper girl // the lumineers
boots of spanish leather // amos lee & forest range
arrows // fences, ryan lewis & macklemore
time is dancing // ben howard
if you ever want to be in love // james bay
fourfiveseconds // rihanna, kanye west & paul mccartney
hymnals // grizfolk
i'm sure you've all heard (and maybe grown tired of) the eighth track on this playlist, but a collab this epic has to be acknowledged. i love how supportive and active paul mccartney is in our generation of music. he's not my favorite beatle for nothing.
shut up and dance.
This is, to me, the loveliest and saddest landscape in the world. It is the same as that on the preceding page, but I have drawn it again to impress it on your memory. It is here that the little prince appeared on Earth, and disappeared.
Look at it carefully so that you will be sure to recognize it in case you travel some day to the African desert. And, if you should come upon this spot, please do not hurry on. Wait for a time, exactly under the star. Then, if a little man appears who laughs, who has golden hair and who refuses to answer questions, you will know who he is. If this should happen, please comfort me.
Send me word that he has come back.
i have been getting a lot of questions about my tattoo lately and i have been dying to talk about it with you guys! my favorite book is the little prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. i love this book more than anything (i mean, i'm making pieces of the fox chapter part of my wedding vows. if you've read the story, you know what i mean.), and i am begging every single one of you to read it. it is a french children's book, but it is so deep and beautifully written. personally, i believe the little prince himself is a parallel of Christ, but read for yourself to see why. the last page (italicized above) gives me chills every time. on my wrist, i have the star from "the lonely landscape". it makes my heart smile knowing i have this beautiful thing that i adore on my skin forever.
that being said, even though i'm still new to this whole tattoo thing, i have some pointers for those of you about to make the leap!
i am so happy and honestly cannot stop looking at it. to those of you with tattoos, any tips for us newbies? if you don't have any yet, what do you want? i'd love to hear from you!
okay, let’s talk tattoos. this one is for the homies who are maybe thinking about getting inked?? deciding to tattoo your body is a huge decision. so, here i am attempting to hopefully give you useful advice/tips for your first time.
first, here are some things that you need to know:
secondly, here’s some advice:
truth is, you’re probably not ever going to be ready for your first tattoo. and that’s okay. i have a little crescent moon on my left forearm, and i am still surprised when i see it there. to me, it’s a tribute to the still quiet beauty of the night. i look at it, and it reminds me that even in darkness there is still a sliver of light.
i hope you find what you’re looking for in the ink,
wow, time really does fly when you're having fun. i cannot believe aubstronomy has been consuming my life for a whole month today. when i came up with the concept for this blog, i never though i'd have my two best friends, and over 800 readers along with me. i want to thank them and all of you for dealing with my rants, shenanigans, and late night anxiety-laced texts (but maybe those are just for mary lynn and sara). i'd also like to thank taylor swift. for always believing in me. if you're reading this, we've never met but... well, actually we met when i was in fourth grade but i was lookin' real rough so i hope you don't remember that. but we could meet, you know, now. if you wanted to. seriously taylor, hit me up whenever.
honestly guys, i am ever so thankful for all of your support and could never tell you that enough. nothing makes my day more than hearing my friends and family telling me they're reading, let alone keeping up! that's crazy to me! i can't wait to see where we go and hope you stick around to watch with us.
all the love
"just remember, even your worst days only have twenty-four hours."
24 hours. 1,440 minutes. 86,400 seconds. if you really think about it, a day isn't that much time at all. seconds go by with the single bat of an eyelash. minutes pass while sitting at that red light early in the morning drinking the first of many coffees of the day. an hour can be occupied by watching a single episode of saturday night live reruns on netflix. time passes by so quickly! why waste it dwelling on the fact that it's a monday?
instead of dreading going to work, start trying to look forward to talking to that cute coworker who makes your heart smile. rather than wishing you were sleeping while sitting in your first class of the week, be grateful that you even have the opportunity to receive an education. if you have some free time, look at cute pictures of animals if you're feeling a little gloomy (this is a sara wesson approved way of making ANY day better). or maybe just in the midst of a whole mess of things when your head is so occupied with hundreds of thoughts, take a minute to gather yourself together and just breathe. remembering to breathe every once in a while helps a lot.
focus your energy on making it a good day, instead of just trying to make it through to the next. i promise, it makes the day go by faster. and who knows, maybe you'll start wishing that your mondays would slow down a little bit so you have the opportunity to soak in the joys that it brings!
but if for some reason and despite all of your desperate attempts, this day just seems near impossible to get through and you don't know how you're possibly going to make it home in one piece, just remember that this day only has twenty-four hours. actually it probably has less, because you already conquered the other ones like the champ that you are. don't stress; you got this day in the bag.
happy monday, cuties!
thank god it's friday. i'm ready to get home, throw on a swimsuit, and brave the cold because i can't stand being this pale for a second longer. here's what we're listening to and what you should be. perfect for your commute, evening run, or poolside fantasies. as always, let us know what you're bumping and which song we've made your new favorite.
a rush of blood // coasts
good day // nappy roots
i try // macy gray
breezeblocks // alt-j
change your ticket // one direction
shake // the head and the heart
the girl // city and colour
weight of living, pt. i // bastille
mr. brightside // the killers
cheers to the freakin' weekend
images via tumblr
you are under no obligation to be the same person you were five minutes ago. this thought, or mantra if you will, keeps me going. this is a thing, a thing that i can do. and i love that i have the freedom to do it. hearing those words for the first time actually blew me away (in a life-view-altering kinda way), which is why i want to share it with you.
we are often stuck in this mentality of “new beginnings": "i'll start on monday” or "i'll start next month” or "i'll start on new years". but why are we waiting? especially when we aren't even guaranteed our next hour. i'll say it again: you are under no obligation to be the same person you were five minutes ago.
it is such a refreshing statement to live by, and i try to remind myself of it more often than i'd like to admit. "wow i really don't like how i've been eating today, i'll have something super healthy for dinner." "i was kinda in a bad mood, but i am choosing to be an optimistic person." "imma be a dog person from here on out." (i am forever trying to convert people into dog people. i mean, i like cats and all, but more than dogs?? that's just unnatural). you can truly be whoever you want to be. if you watch a documentary and it makes you so squeamish that you decide to go vegan, that's a huge lifestyle change you made in just a few seconds! if you watch a sermon and you adopt religion, holy cow! you can be whoever you want to be because you are a lil galaxy walking on this earth!!!! how cool are you!!!!!
hey, you under no obligation to be the same person you were five minutes ago.
photography by alyx gardner
my name is sara wesson, and yes, people call me by my first and last name in everyday conversation. i'm the newbie over here at aubstronomy. because of that fact, i feel like it is only necessary to share a little bit of random facts about me.
i can't wait to see where aubstronomy goes and i'm so happy/blessed that i get to have this experience with some of my best friends!
withs lots of love and coffee,
*editors mark: i would like to point out that sara and i met many moons ago but this was truly the moment we fell in love. (love, aubrey)
documenting the fun years.